Again, long distance relationships are NOT IMPOSSIBLE, they are NOT UNWORKABLE, and they DO WORK. However, as have been pointed out, it’s not for everyone either. It’s not an easy relationship to be in, and most couples who are into long distance relationships face a really big challenge not only from being apart, but also from the “in-betweens” of the relationship distance.
If one chooses to be in a long distance relationship then be “really” in it; don’t give it just one fourth or one half of you, give it your whole heart and mind. Do it for the right reasons and stand your ground. Be ready to make sacrifices, as it will be needed. Never be discouraged with what people say and people think about your relationship. Know by heart that more than anybody else; it is you who discern and feel the happiness, the importance, and the true meaning of what you have.
Be emotionally ready with a lot of things to come. Like any relationship, long distance relationships will have its ups and downs, it will have its sunshine and rain, it will have its good days and bad days, but with the right amount of affection, effort, and attention in both sides, it can and it will survive any obstacles that it will be challenged with.
As long as the both of you remember that most important “reason” on why you chose to do this long distance relationship in the first place, combined with constantly letting each other know about your personal life, keeping in touch, seeing each other whenever the opportunity allows, and trusting and being honest with each other at all times, then your long distance relationship can be one of the most happy and triumphant relationships that can ever exist. It doesn’t matter whether near or far, the both of you will be satisfied, contented, and secured until that day of “re-uniting-for-good” comes.
Finally, always bear in mind that in relationships, even with those who have the conventional “seeing-each-other-everyday” relationship, does not guarantee success either; it’s always a matter of how the both of you take care and handle your relationship. It’s all about what you’re willing to give and what you’re ready to accept. With this in mind, you will know that distance is just distance, and if you look at a map, even two separate poles can be beside each other when you fold-in what’s in between them.
If one chooses to be in a long distance relationship then be “really” in it; don’t give it just one fourth or one half of you, give it your whole heart and mind. Do it for the right reasons and stand your ground. Be ready to make sacrifices, as it will be needed. Never be discouraged with what people say and people think about your relationship. Know by heart that more than anybody else; it is you who discern and feel the happiness, the importance, and the true meaning of what you have.
Be emotionally ready with a lot of things to come. Like any relationship, long distance relationships will have its ups and downs, it will have its sunshine and rain, it will have its good days and bad days, but with the right amount of affection, effort, and attention in both sides, it can and it will survive any obstacles that it will be challenged with.
As long as the both of you remember that most important “reason” on why you chose to do this long distance relationship in the first place, combined with constantly letting each other know about your personal life, keeping in touch, seeing each other whenever the opportunity allows, and trusting and being honest with each other at all times, then your long distance relationship can be one of the most happy and triumphant relationships that can ever exist. It doesn’t matter whether near or far, the both of you will be satisfied, contented, and secured until that day of “re-uniting-for-good” comes.
Finally, always bear in mind that in relationships, even with those who have the conventional “seeing-each-other-everyday” relationship, does not guarantee success either; it’s always a matter of how the both of you take care and handle your relationship. It’s all about what you’re willing to give and what you’re ready to accept. With this in mind, you will know that distance is just distance, and if you look at a map, even two separate poles can be beside each other when you fold-in what’s in between them.
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