Tips for Picking Up Women

Face it, when it comes to picking up women, you could use a little help.
Don’t feel bad, you’re certainly not alone.  In the big old world of dating, it’s common knowledge that women run the playing the field, controlling situations, ending conversations and walking out with whoever they choose.
Doesn’t feel so great to be so helpless or out of control, does it?

Entering The Dating Market

Do you know what one of the biggest misconceptions in the dating scene really is?
That you have to have a killer body, a killer face or a bank account that never ends.
But think about it, it’s likely that you’ve been shocked at the sight of some of the guys who have been able to hook up with gorgeous women, right?
Overweight, nerdy, it doesn’t matter – if you have the ‘magic touch’ when it comes to women, you can connect with anyone who choose, regardless of how you look, how old you are, where you’re from – or what you do.
So, what is the basis of the magic touch?

Tips for Picking Up Women

Confidence.
Don’t underestimate its power. Confidence is like an aphrodisiac for women. They smell it a mile away and if you approach them where that confidence is up front and center, you’ll easily tear down even the strongest wall between you.
But here’s where most guys get it all wrong.

Confidence and EGO are two different things!

Women love one, they can’t stand the other, so you need to be able to make the distinction so you don’t come across as a jackass who has nothing more to offer than a conversation centered around yourself.
Ego turns women away – they end up feeling as if they aren’t having a conversation with you, they are competing against you.
You turn what could be a wonderful introduction into an awkward battle to the finish line, where the women you speak with will be far too busy thinking up ways to “out-do” you, or they’ll already have you tuned out while they’re checking out another guy in the club.
Confidence however is far more passive. You aren’t shouting how fantastic you are from the rooftops, or waving it front of their faces because it’s subtle – and it’s powerful stuff.

So how can you gain confidence if you lack experience?

You fake it until you make it, baby.
Confidence comes from experience, so you’re going to have to prepare for a few strikeouts before you begin to genuinely feel more comfortable talking to women.